The Year in review.....goodbye 2007

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can stand............Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand! Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Ephesians: 6: 10, 13-18


This year, the Lord has taught us many things......and if anything He has taught us to STAND! To stand with the full armor of God and with that I make this end of the year prayer.

Oh, Dear Lord,

When this year began, we thought Russell's dad would be gone by now....he's here. We saw our brother in law retire, a few motorhome trips, many, many doctor trips, a scare with Russell's lungs, faced breast cancer with Russell's mom, watched our children grow and change....Paul started seeing his children more (our grandchildren), David doing well with his job, an anniversary for Tommy and Claudia, Matt's pharmacy school coating.

March a brother had a birthday. Thank you for brothers and sisters.

May brought a family wedding, births in our church. A sister's birthday...

June saw papa and mema's 59th anniversary! You allowed them another year together. A nephew turned 21. Ashley turned 15 and Adam 11....thank you for allowing me to be their nana....

July you allowed us a wonderful visit with Ashley and Adam and I turned 55! A brother had a birthday too!

August came and Russell turned 56 and I was ever so thankful for another year of life for my dear husband. Paul and David and Maria all had birthdays this month, along with a niece. Another brother's birthday.

September saw Katie's engagement, oh such joy! And always, there is sadness mingled with joy. Mama began to have a few problems and calls started coming in from the retirement center. Even one as I was in Disney Word with my sister, cousin and friends. But you comforted us through all. Another sister's birthday....Debbie turns 51!

October brought such sadness. Our dear friend and the mother of my dear friend, Carol, went to be with the Lord after a long struggle with illness. We stood together, many of us, to feel your comfort with that family. Mama started some regular doctor appointments that were not so much fun for her or me.

November brought two weddings! Both close friends! Also a very special 12th anniversary for Russell and me, and a Thanksgiving trip to Russell's sister's in North Carolina......one we never really expected papa to make! Thank you! Then a sudden shock, mama fell and was in the hospital, then rehab. Finally back home! Thank you!

December brought news that papa's cancer had not grown since July and that he's stable. We had another Christmas with him and he continues to do well. Thank you!
After the sadness of death, my friend's grandson was engaged! Thank you so much for mingling sadness with joy. Tears with laughter.....and most of all for the birth
of a baby in Bethlehem, long prophesied to come.....our Savior Jesus Christ! Thank you that you are Truth, that your Son laid aside His glory to come to earth and die for us......for the Grace you gave at such a high cost.

Oh, Lord you taught us that we know nothing....that you hold our lives in the palm of your hand and our names are engraved there! You taught us to believe you in Scripture when you said "I know the plans I have for you." We thought we knew what the year 2007 would bring, we didn't.

We had as many emotions as there were days in 2007. And so we thank you and say, in 2008 we will do our best, with Your help, to STAND! And to remember that You know what 2008 holds and there are no surprises for you. Thank you for being our God.

Thank you for 2007.....and in advance for the adventures to come with You in 2008.

Because He lives, we can face tomorrow and 2008!

Oh, I almost forgot the scary!

I guess that's because it turned out to be not all that scary after all.....Praise God!

My mama lives in an assisted living center....which means she has her own two bedroom apartment with her own furniture so it is just like home, but not..:) She has been so happy there for the last few years.



During this past year, she has had more physical problems, especially with her shoulders, which makes getting around hard on her. Then she had that bad fall and since returning to her home, she has had to have round the clock sitters. This has been such an awful eye opener! If any of you need a job and want to make pretty good money, be a CNA and do private sitting! The ladies that sit are wonderful, but mama is paying a LOT of rent, plus a LOT of money per week for the sitters.

Now for the scary part. I know you're thinking that was scary enough thinking about all that money draining out of her account that needs to fund her for life! We were called for a meeting with the head nurse, 2 facility nurses and one of mama's sitters. Of course, I got all crazy, thinking they were going to tell us she had to move. But as it turned out, they were just making sure they (and we) are doing everything to help mama get better so that she won't have to continue having round the clock sitters.

Of course, as you can imagine, she HATES having people in her house all the time. She is used to her privacy and likes it! But for now, we don't know what else to do to keep her safe and able to continue to live there.

I feel like this has been the most rambling post I've ever written.

I can't believe tomorrow is the last day of the year 2007! I'm looking for a great 2008.

The good, the bad and the scary!

SURPRISE!!!!! My good friend Carol, our good friend Mary Grace, Carol's son, Aaron, his brand new fiance, Nicole, Russell and Matt and I all went to supper at our favorite little Mexican place. While we were there Aaron broke the news that he had asked Nicole to marry him and she said yes! There were tears and excitement all around! It was also Aaron's birthday so there was much celebrating! They plan a long engagement. So congratulations and many blessings on this happy time!




All six of us siblings at my brother's home on Christmas day! Mama, how did you put up with this crazy lot of kids?? From left youngest brother Steve, me, next to youngest Michael, big sister Cathy, little sister Debbie and the oldest Tommy. We are all very different, but all alike in our love for each other and for our family!



The three sisters with our mama and Debbie's mother in law. Taking pictures in such a big group is NOT easy!



Mary Grace came and spent a couple of days with us. We always have such fun with her and laugh like crazy! Or should that be crazy people??? She had to go home today....:( We miss her already!



Russell, his Uncle Hugh, me and Matt at Russell's mama's house on Christmas Eve, right before leaving to go to our church's candlelight service.




The two princes......on Christmas morning Russell cooked breakfast and we all had Christmas poppers and they all came with crowns. We thought it would be fun to have our pictures in our royal attire!



The princess and the queen mother!



The queen and her king!

That was the good! Last nite, Carol, Mary Grace and I were watching an old movie and just relaxing when I got a call from Paul saying he was at the courthouse for his court appearance saying he might go to jail and didn't want to be on bad terms with me if he did go. I told him I was so sorry and would be praying. I was thankful that he sounded like he really meant it......I went immediately into my bedroom then into my bathroom knelt and prayed for him....no, I don't usually pray in the bathroom floor, but I was upset and had company and it made sense at the moment.

Later, he called back and said he wasn't going to jail, but has another court appearance next month...all this is a big mess that started because of anger, alcohol and drugs and a girlfriend. I guess all those don't go together. When he called the second time he was in a drugstore purchasing blood pressure medication and his attitude had drastically changed for the worse! It wasn't long before I had to hang up due to the cursing!

I think I'll have to talk about the scary tomorrow because it is late and I'm so tired! It's good to read everybody's Christmas stories!

And to all.........a good nite!

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas day! We enjoyed the day, starting with our traditional Christmas breakfast. I picked up mama and Russell's parents came and David and Matt were here. Russell cooks every breakfast thing you could want! I always have bacon and pancakes because I don't eat them any other time....o.k. unless I happen to be at a Cracker Barrel. But not often! We had a great breakfast. I got mama settled in the recliner, Russell's parents and David went home and Russell and I took a short nap.

We then cooked our dishes to take to our family Christmas dinner at my brother's home. All 6 of us brothers and sisters, our spouses, some of our children and some of their children, along with friends, parents in law, and just for good measure, the Roto Rooter man! Yes, just as everyone arrived for Christmas dinner, the septic tank decided it had had all it could take, literally! Luckily, my brother's inlaws live right next door, so we could troop over and use their bathroom.

We had a wonderful dinner and good visiting! Finally, the roto rooter man got there, fixed all "that" and when he started to leave, his dog (this is a true story I promise) had locked himself in the truck! After a lot of deliberating, my brother took him to his house to get another key! I know he had a great Christmas! Full of, well,let's just say probably not good cheer!

After dinner, we came home and I put on my pj's and went straight to bed for a long nap.

I talked to the grandchildren :) I didn't talk to Paul, however, I text messaged him Merry Christmas. He did the same back! That was nice. I just felt with all the tension between us, that maybe we didn't need to actually talk. I'm too tired of the fighting and anger.

But, reading someone Else's blog, this scripture was brought to mind.......

Ephesians 6:13 talking about putting on the whole armor of God. "Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, stand!" So tonight, Paul, if you read this, I'm standing on the promises of God! He will bring you back whole and healed. I love you.

I hope you all had a good day, and now, really, to all a good nite.

And Mary Pondered all these things in her heart.....

Away in a manger, no crib for a bed....
The little Lord Jesus lay down His sweet head.
The stars in the sky look down where He lay,
The Little Lord Jesus asleep on the hay.....


One of my favorite songs. I sang this often when my children were little at church and at home during this season. I love the thought of what marvelous grace Jesus gave to us who are so undeserving. He set aside His glory and came to earth to dwell among us and to live a perfect life so that He could be our atonement for sin. He didn't have to do it! He loved us that much.

I didn't do the 12 random things about me and Christmas....but I just want to share one.

In the Bible when it says "and Mary pondered all these things in her heart", have you ever stopped to wonder what she pondered? I have. She had just given birth to her own savior.....what things must have been going through her mind? But in everything, she was obedient and simply trusted the One she knew to be Truth.

The first time I heard "Mary did you know?" I cried. Mary was just a humble girl who received an incredible blessing. Can you imagine raising God??? :) Maybe it was easier since He was perfect! Our minds just can't wrap themselves around such as that.

This Christmas I am so thankful that He picked me up and brushed the sin off and said you are my daughter. I don't deserve it, I can do nothing to earn it, I am just thankful for that salvation.

If you are reading this and you don't know Jesus, hurry to meet Him in God's Word, the only infallible source of truth and life.

Merry Christmas to you all and we will see you in a few days. Turn your sound up and listen to these sweet lyrics. http://www.andiesisle.com/didsheknow.html

It looks like you'll have to copy and paste it to listen but I assure you, it is worth it!

No, this is not just a picture to show everyone how "thick" my waist has gotten. Due to me having the crud, I missed the two other parties we were going to.....including my husband's office dinner which is one I love! But, by last nite I was feeling so much better and so I dressed up and we went to a friend's open house party. It was really fun and we saw so many people that we only see at these kinds of functions.

No, it wasn't until I downloaded this picture that I said to the husband "Dear, we have to go on a serious diet, but I just don't think we can do it until after Christmas!" He just nodded!

I hope all of my dear blog friends are having a wonderful time leading up to Christmas! Our church service today just lifted me up so.....but all of you who are praying for my son, please don't stop! This is the worst crisis he's had for a long time. I truly, truly appreciate your prayers. I know I won't meet some of you until we meet in heaven, but I will know you immediately! I just know I will!

On a more reason for Christmas note!

For several years Russell and I have done the Angel Tree Project. This year I took a family, I must confess more out of guilt than love.

Yesterday was not a great day! I'm trying to shake this cough, upset about the son and then got rear ended at the bank! But it was the sweetest little woman, and she was so upset. She and her husband are missionaries in Honduras where he is now, so she is alone with her child. She had all her insurance forms and we got them together and got a police report. Then she walked over to me with a pen and handed it to me and said, "I have nothing else to give you for my sorrow (at hitting my car!) so please take this pen." I tried and tried to tell her she didn't need to give me anything, but she got more and more upset so finally I just said thank you and please don't worry about this. Later in the day I picked up the pen and saw that in small writing it said "we serve the Lord". I cried. I thought, that is Christmas.

So.....I went out and bought my Angel gifts and even spruced the basket up a little with candy canes and a small gift for the mother and did it with a grateful heart knowing that some have so little, and yet are so blessed by the love of Christ.

I delivered the gift to the mother's work place and she just hugged me and thanked me and said "Be blessed"......and I thought through trouble, trials and tribulations of all kinds, I am blessed. I am blessed that the one who created the world with his Word chose to love me!!!

To My Son.......

Since I know my son sometimes reads my blog this is for him. I also know that I'm not the only mother suffering from a broken heart over a child. It seems as if holidays bring out the worst in those who suffer from mental problems.

You called today, upset, things gone wrong, no one to blame. You called and talked to me using words no mother thinks will ever come out of her child's mouth. You were frustrated, filled with anger at the world. You declared a war and wanted to know what side I was on. Our conversation didn't end well.

What was it about some will wonder??? That story is so complicated. If I had the energy (and i will one day), I'll post a picture of you when you and two friends were the three wise men in the Christmas play at church. Somehow the picture was double exposed and is somewhat blurred.....kind of like looking to the future. But you knew all about Jesus. You loved Him.....He still loves you, please turn to Him.

The problem you had today started with a fight with your girlfriend. The one you love one moment and hate the next.....the one you tell me is insane but yet you continue to stay in the situation. Your children were there as was her child. Things got out of control and the fighting escalated. The smaller child was crying and at some point, your sweet, peacemaking daughter pled with you to stop. And as I have been quite concerned about for some time, you turned that anger on her. Oh, not with physical actions, but with words.....words that stay and hurt long after you've forgotten them. Trust me, she will forgive because she loves you and wants you in her life so badly, but she will never forget. Little chips will form and she will have to put up walls to protect herself. My prayer is that she has enough self confidence not to pick a man with similar problems so she can "fix" him because she couldn't fix her daddy.

The thing about it is this. She's 15, an age where some girls are in total rebellion. She's not. She's as sweet as she is beautiful. She tries so hard to make everyone around her happy. She thinks of others before she thinks of herself.

She has had you in her life such a little bit of time.....let her have you sober and without rage. Resolve your anger issues without involving her or your precious son. You can never give her back all the years you weren't there, but you can make the ones you are there good. You can start by helping yourself. Getting help for you so you can be daddy to them.

There is no war, son, I don't need to pick sides. I lay you daily on the mercy seat of God, praying He will turn your heart around. I also lay your children there praying a hedge of protection around them, that they may not be touched by the ugliness that comes with the lifestyle you choose.

I must say this to you, those words, words you use to hurt. No mother should have to hear those coming out of a dear, loved sons mouth. I will always be here to talk to, but I will not under any conditions listen to that kind of talk again. I'll have to hang up. You know that.

Now, I beg you to go quickly and find help. Work through your issues whatever they are. Don't find people with those same issues to be with. Start new, fresh and be the man I know you can be. God can heal you, He can mend the broken hearts around you and He can make your way straight.

If you continue on this path, I am frightened for what may become of you. Run as fast as you can to God, grab His everlasting arms and cling to them. Be a man....for your children. And think of this, what kind of adults do you want your children to be. My love cannot heal you, but His love will.

Later last nite I talked with both grandchildren and in my feeble way tried to comfort them and make sure they didn't think it was there fault. My granddaughter said "Nana, it isn't your fault". .....the poor girl. I can see that I must rescue the world attitude growing in her heart. I pray she lets that go!

Still later in the nite, I got a phone call from one of Paul's friends telling me Paul had been arrested....I wish I could say I was shocked, but I was expecting it knowing the mood he was in. The friend said Paul asked him to ask me if he could "borrow" $1500.00 for bail.....This will sound quite cruel to some but I told his friend that he could relay two things to my son for me, 1...I just don't pay people for cussing at me.....2.I never, ever pay bail, been there done that. And furthermore I told him that if he was really his friend he would encourage Paul to seek help.

The phone rang once again at about 11:30 p.m. I answered to a recording stating this was a call from a correctional center would I accept collect charges. I hung the phone up, took it off the hook, turned my cell phone to silent and slept. I really slept. I haven't heard anything today. But really, he, at 37, must learn to love God and his children more than the drink and drugs.

I promise I will have some really light posts soon. :)

That which goes down must come up?????? RIGHT???

After a really miserable nite last nite complete with those high fever kind of hallucinations where every time I looked at the clock I swear it said 4:44 a.m., I debated for 15 minutes about going to the doctor but man I'm glad I did! She said I was really sick :), I knew that! Anyway, here's to hoping the antibiotics kick in quickly and I'm feeling better soon. I also read over last nite's post and realized that I shouldn't type while feverish, half of what I typed was either not spelled right or I left out a word. O.K. so now I've been way down and I hope to be wayyyyy up in the next day or two.

I had to miss my husband's office party last nite, and that's about the only one I really like going to, maybe because I feel comfortable and don't worry about what to wear! I did forget to give him my camera so no pictures!

Officially sick

O.K. it's official, I have a sore throat, every bone and joint in my body hurts, and I'm coughing like it's my full time job! I spend a lot of the day today scrounging around to see if we could possibly have a small remnant of tussenex and I did.......a very small, tiny, bit. Hardly getting out the spoon for. I still casn't talk and unless I wake up tomorrow with a miracle and am completely well, Russell is calling the doctor and getting me in! Remember I can't speak louder than a whisper!

The funny (if any humor can be found in this miserabel thing) is that I never, ever, never have the flu! That's what it feels like....I'm burning up and I have a fever of 102 . The doctor talked me into in so that if I got it I wouldn't give it to my father in law. I think I'll remind her of that!

Home again, home again.....

Poor Russell, he was ready to go home! He's a good sport about shopping and even likes to shop when he's in the "mood". But at this point in the day, we were both ready for supper and pj's!




But isn't this a beautiful Christmas tree! I have been wondering what all the huge ornaments were for this year....but they go nicely on this tree!

Saturday we got a lot of much needed rain! But it stormed so badly, I was a little frightened in the motor home. As it turned out one of our sons told us he heard there was a tornado around where we were! We could be in Kansas right now. But the rain let up before we had to load everything to go home. I woke up this morning with NO voice! I don't ever remember having laryngitis this bad! I can talk at a whisper only! That's hard for me, but for some strange reason my husband is smiling like the Cheshire cat! His office Christmas party is tomorrow nite, so I'm hoping to be better or I won't be able to go! They are going to a restaurant I haven't been to yet and I want to go! Was that a whine in my whisper??? :)

Rain Day

We rode bikes for a bit this morning....it was overcast. We got ready, started out to eat lunch and the bottom dropped out! Storming! But, hey, you have to eat right? So we went to the Laredo Cantina and had wonderful fajitas. Then I had to do just one more store and we came home to nap in the storm. I mean we really need the rain and we're getting it. It was so great, this morning we rode our bikes down near the beach and the water was a light emerald green, beautiful. Sometimes when it is overcast the water will be a dull tea color, but today it was so gorgeous..red flags flying of course, which means there was a bad undertow.

We went in a lot of stores this weekend and tried to avoid the Happy Holiday stores! Have you all seen the "ugly list"? Stores which don't allow their employees to say Merry Christmas or display Christmas in any way? I was in Coldwater Creek today and was telling the clerk about it and she said "well all I have to say is Merry, Merry, merry Christmas!" That brought a big smile!

Shopping day.....

We did get a lot done today....that is after we slept in, sat around and drank coffee that was so good. One of the missionaries from Uganda sent us some coffee beans and we bought a little grinder and had that for breakfast and I wish I could call Rashid and tell him how much we enjoyed it! Russell is treasurer of the African Christian Training Institute and this was a little gift that was unexpected but so good!!! But I digress.......

When I finally got ready, we went to do some Christmas shopping here in San Destin. We got a lot done....but loving bargains as I do, the biggest bargain of the day was a pair of $60.00 pajamas for Russell's Uncle for $12.00!!!! You gotta love a bargain. Russell's uncle is 89 and very spry! A little eccentric too. The other day he was telling us that before he goes to sleep every nite (at 6 p.m.) he recites the Lord's prayer, all the counties in Florida (67), the states and capitals and equivalent of the same in Canada....all the countries in South America and their capitals and all of the blood relatives of Russell's mother, his first cousin. He then recites the first, middle and last names of all of us.....our children, etc. OCD????? All I have to say is the man is a genius and a sweetheart on top of that! He never married, was in the army and was at Pearl Harbor when it was attacked, retired and lived with Russell's grandmother until she died at age 107. They have some good genes in that family! He's really hard to buy presents for, but I think he'll like the pajamas. If I were blogging at home, I would put a picture up, but I can't access my pictures from here.

I also found a pretty first Christmas together ornament for my surrogate daughter that just married.

Before we left, I got my California presents in the mail. Early for me!

So, we have decided that tomorrow is just a rest day. We'll just do whatever we want to! That will be nice.

The last hurrah!

Here we are in Henderson Beach State Park in the motor home for one last few days of camping solitude before tax season starts....oh, yes, if you didn't know, my husband is a CPA. So beginning in January, we see less and less of him.....take him supper if we want to see him before bed. Oh, now that we are an empty nest, I guess it will just be me the dogs and the cats. At first the long nites are o.k. cause I get a lot done that I can't get done during the day. But after a few weeks of not seeing him until I'm in bed that gets old and lonely. And poor man, he is a wonder....I have a friend who calls him superhero....when he gets home after a long, long day, he's just as sweet as he always is. And cooks supper every Friday nite.
Yes, I am blessed!

The weather here is beautiful.....I'm so sorry for those of you who are in those terrible ice storms. I'm amazed that we are at the beach in short sleeves and some are unable to leave their homes because trees are across their driveways and they have no electricity. For all of you, we pray you'll soon be back to normal.

Even though we have the internet and t.v. (o.k. I guess you can't call this camping!), we relax more here. And if a child looking for a mama fight calls, well I just may not answer the phone.

Thanks to my sister Cathy who is spending tonight and tomorrow nite with mama. She will watch her carefully and see if she thinks mama would do o.k. with less than 24 hour sitters. Having sitters is so expensive! She loves her home and we just pray she can afford to stay there for life. Thanks Cathy, I know you're tired and need to rest yourself.

I guess I should go rest,for tomorrow we shop. We have to get our Christmas shopping done! I did get the grandchildren's off in the mail today. Their's are the gifts I really want to get to them on time. Each year, I try to give or tell them something about the gift of Jesus. I so pray that God draws them. They haven't been to church a lot. We take them when they're with us, but they need to be with a good group of Christian peers. o.k. I realize I'm rambling now! So goodnite to all.

Truly only Because He Lives....

I am looking down and only seeing one set of footprints because God is carrying me through this crazy time!


I was just listening to the song on Angie's site "Because He Lives"....and thinking how appropriate! Without Him I wouldn't want to face another day!

We are trying to get loaded up for one last motorhome trip to Destin before tax season starts, and it has been "one of those weeks". I don't want this to be a place where I'm constantly being oh, so low, and I really do have a good sense of humor, but sometimes I'm laughing to keep from crying. I never cry.....I thought I was through with that part of my life, because I used to cry if I saw a possum dead in the road. But for some reason for the last year, i just don't cry much, not that I'm complaining,because crying just gives me such a headache. But yesterday, before I left home to go to a little volunteer thing I do on Wednesdays, one son dropped in 15 minutes before I was to leave. He got unreasonably upset with me because "I never want to visit with him". He stopped by because he was on his way to the doctor. ??? I tried to nicely say, maybe if you would call a day or so in advance so I'd have some idea you were thinking about dropping in, I would make time. By the time he left, I was crying!

After I got finished at the volunteer job, I returned a call to my older son in California....mistake. He was in, well, let's just say a mood....it would be inappropriate here to go through our conversation and besides you would then recommend that I go directly to the psychiatric ward and admit myself. I'll say he was having some anger issues and of course I'm the cause of world hunger so there you go!

I then took my mama to the doctor and that is something I'm happy to be able to do....it is just an all day sucker! :) Gratefully, she was doing o.k. By the time I got home, it was 4:30 and church starts at 5:30.....I was sorely tempted to call the husband and say, you know, I'm just going to bed, then I thought if ever I needed to be in the house of God with believers, tonight's the nite! I'm glad I went. I always am.

Came home to send Christmas, wedding and birthday cards and was up late doing that and now I'm packing....well, sort of....

Did I say I didn't want this to be a downer??? O.K. changed my mind. Thanks to all of you who have become such friends. My sons stand in the need of prayer! If it comes to mind, we covet all prayers!

Christmas in rounds....

We had a quick, but fun weekend with son Tommy and wife Claudia. They got in Friday nite and the men went hunting Saturday while DIL and I went shopping. We got a lot done! Later that nite, we had our Christmas with them. They will be with Claudia's parents and family for the actual Christmas time.

And congratulation to DIL's brother who graduates from college next week! We're proud of you Collis!

We had a meeting after church today, so we sent the kids to church and lunch with their grandparents....good thing, we're forming a pulpit search committee for our church and we with another couple got the job of counting ballots! We were there until 2 p.m. The kids had to leave before we got home. I got home ate a bite and crashed! I slept until just before time to go back to church! Our youth choir was singing tonight and they were just wonderful and so worshipful!

I called and talked to my grandson tonight....his sister was working at her dad's on a school project. It is always a joy to talk to them!

So now, husband is already sound asleep and I'm not far behind! Tomorrow starts another busy week! I hope it is good for all!

Back from the hunt!

Russell and son Tommy went hunting today and Tommy got a buck! He is so excited....now I am aware that everyone doesn't believe in/like killing animals but let me assure you that we eat the meat! Well, to be completely honest, I don't but the rest of our family does.

I didn't grow up in a family of hunters so I'm not crazy about it, but the boys are so what's a mother to do???

This is a picture of a buck killed a couple of years ago, I didn't see the one they got today because they dropped it by the meat market on the way home. So in a couple of weeks, we'll pick up sausage and hamburger meat.

Tommy and Claudia won't be home for Christmas this year, so they opened presents tonight. Tonja, I got Claudia one of those baskets you had on your blog and she loves it, she's a teacher and it will come in handy! So with that, goodnite to all!

The weekend

Sometimes, I have trouble coming up with the title of my blogs....In just a little while these two children will be arriving to spend the weekend with us....I also talked to two other of our children today and if I call the baby, I'll have talked to all my children! Oh, I still wish I could get them all together in one place! Just for 5 minutes to take a photo! Well, of course, I'd love to just get hugs all around. Russell's parents are coming too and we'll grill out. David might come if he gets off work in time. It's been a busy day, but we all ready to visit with children! Have a great weekend all!

My Favorite things.....

Since the second year of our relationship, before we were married I started giving Russell (you know it is really for me) the Swarvorski ornament for each year. Each year, we added another ornament to this ornament tree and now there are 13....the first year we dated, I gave him a different ornament. I love the sparkle of these ornaments and I love the fact that each year when I put them on, I think about that particular year and the things that happened good and bad. Each year, we have grown closer together...we are growing into that one flesh that God ordained us to be.
Each day, I get a few more Christmas things out and I feel more and more like Christmas. I'm so thankful for all my family and friends, including you here who have become friends.

I'm most thankful that Christmas means that our savior came into the world!

P.S. Today my son called and we had the most "normal" conversation that we've had in a long, long time. I'm thankful for that too!

It's starting to look somewhat like Christmas!

The stockings were hung by the chimney with care.....OOPS! I didn't hang the stockings this year. I thought, you know if we are trying to cut back on all the commercialism....why try to find stuff to stuff stockings with?? Besides I gave the piano away and that's what we put the santas on, so with stockings and all, well, it would just be too much.

But here's our tree! Russell put it together, I'm guessing you could tell it is artificial, Saturday and I had no choice but to start decorating it.......as I got out boxes of ornaments that go back for years, I began to enjoy the decorating. I have a beautiful little bell from Mexico that my boss gave me at least 35 years ago! It hangs near the top of the tree each year...and it is just a wonder that in 35 years, I haven't broken the thing! There are ornaments that were given from special people, things the kids made over the years and just lots of memories. The angel on the top I bought on sale at Eckerds when I was a poor, single mother with two children. She has held up pretty well, huh? The angel I mean!

Russell's mother gives us a santa every year. ... I actually have 6, but one is in a different place and one is having his foot glued on. He had a tragic accident!

And that's about all I got done this day! I'm not through yet, and I want to get it all done because one of our sons and his wife are coming this weekend. This will be a very strange year.....only two of our 4 will be in town for Christmas....they're growing up and have other people to visit!

p.s. a funny little story about the piano....it was an old turn of the century player piano that had not worked in years. I had tried to give it to everybody that I saw and just could NOT get rid of it, which I wanted badly to do as I had something else I wanted in that spot. Finally, in desperation I put an ad in the "pass it on" in the classifieds. Someone called and said he wanted it and could come the next day. Another woman called and said she wanted it, I told her it was already given away....she said in a very excited voice, "I'll double what they're paying".....I thought for just a minute before saying, it's free. :)

And by the way....

I want to say a big thank you to my sister and her husband for letting the three of us stay at their home....we tried so hard not to trash the house and to be civilized and I believe for the most part we were, but at one point something really funny happened and I started to laugh and well I tried to get to the bathroom but, let's just say we had to mop up some wet spots on the floor. I also knocked a mirror off her bathroom wall and even though it didn't break, it broke a small piece of the baseboard off. I'm guessing none of you are planning on asking me to spend the nite anytime soon, huh? Anyway, thanks you guys! We had a great weekend.

Tis the season.....

There are two ways to come home from Pensacola. My husband prefers to go the interstate, but NOT ME. I'm Hwy 98 all the way.....yes, there is so much more traffic, but it's not dark and scary! Due to some problems during the day Saturday, we didn't start home until later than we planned. I don't see well in the dark. I was driving. Russell left early in the day so it was just Carol and me on the way home. Carol slept, I drove, I don't see well at nite...oh, I said that didn't I???

Everything was going just fine until we got to Navarre and they were having their Christmas parade crossing the highway! So there's Santa on the fire truck and there we were for about 20 minutes. I didn't get the spirit yesterday. But today in church singing Christmas hymns and remembering all the Christmas's past and the joy we have at this time, I suddenly felt that spirit light in my heart. So Merry Christmas all. And really, traffic isn't that bad, it gives you time to look at the pictures on your digital camera!

Weddings make me cry.....

This first picture is Carol and me with the girls before they started dressing.





All the children, Emily, Robin, Brian, Katie and Mary Grace. What a beautiful bunch of kids!



Brian and Robin Hatcher. Two married, two to go!




This was Katie's bridesmaid's BREAKFAST! From left to right, Carol, Cathy (my sister), Mary Grace, Emily, Katie and me. We had a good time and ate a big breakfast. Good thing because we didn't eat much at the reception and then just a bite when we got home. Oh, if you don't count the candy corn that I ate at my sister's house. She is so evil for keeping snack stuff around.




Mr. and Mrs. Beau Benoit dancing at their reception. They took dance lessons and they were great! I'm entering them for dancing with the stars!

Katie was the happiest I've ever seen her on her wedding day. She was calm (at least outwardly) and serene and so sure of this. It was so sweet to watch her that day.

At her reception, all the toasts were sweet, but when her sisters got up to give theirs we knew to get out our hankies! Mary Grace, the baby of the family, talked about Katie being the glue that held their family together and that if anybody deserved this happiness it was her. Then Tony, Katie's dad gave a charge and a blessing to them that was so perfect!

We danced and danced and then we went home to let the young people finish off the nite. It was a beautiful day, a precious, holy ceremony and a fun reception!

This is my toast to you both, May you always be as happy as you are today (on their wedding day).....

One day at a time.......

These last few weeks have been an interesting journey, good and not so good....tomorrow mama goes home to the retirement center where she lives. Is this a good thing......????? Of course it is....is it a bad thing???? It could be. She still isn't walking well with a walker and for at least the time being she will have to have round the clock care. Her mind is good, but her body is failing her. There is also the issue of $$$$$....having people around the clock is very expensive, not to mention her rent and other expenses. This can worry a litter of children! For some reason I feel like I can't worry about that today. Tomorrow my brother and i will go get her and take her home.....I'm not even sure how we will do that. She's really difficult to get in and out of cars and just to get around. I don't think I've been giving enough attention lately to staying in God's Word, but this scripture just popped out today.....Romans 8:25-27..."But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently. In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will."

That was it, God's will. I can't make mama better, or make her have enough money....all I can do is trust God and feel secure in the knowledge that His will will be done. I want mama to get better, I want her to get up and enjoy this winter of her life. I want to see walking down to bingo or to get her hair done. I want all that.....I can't make it happen. He can. If it is His will.....He never fails! I need to remind myself of this daily! Make that moment by moment!!

Wrapping up Thanksgiving!

Here's papa in the motor home with his buddies, Jack and Mikey! They keep a close watch on him as you can see.

We started out our adventure on Sunday morning before Thanksgiving. It takes two days to get to Russell's sister's home. We almost always make it to Commerce, GA and spend the night in the parking lot of the outlet center. We got a late start and got there after the stores closed, so no shopping that day.

We got to our destination and went for supper at Aunt Sue's....our youngest flew in Wednesday morning. He is the only one of our children who made it for Thanksgiving.


Yes, he's holding a beer, he's almost 22 now. Hard to believe, but he's very responsible and only drinks one or two.....that I know of, and that's all I want to know. :)

There was lots of cooking, Sue treated us every nite with a wonderful meal. She's really quite the gourmet cook.



Mother and daughter spent time together....



Sue and Johnny's boys were home from college to spend Thanksgiving with family.....



Johnny and Sarah after dinner sharing a moment.............



Russell and I sharing a moment with our babies..........




And then it was time to come back home.....full of food and fellowship. Everyone back to their everyday lives.

I'm thankful for:

God for giving us every good and perfect gift....especially our salvation.

My husband who is a new gift every day.

A safe trip especially for papa.

Time spent with family.

Knowing that other family members were celebrating Thanksgiving in different places.

That both my older boys called during the day.

That Claudia and Tommy had their own quiet day. Claudia was sick and couldn't come.

That mama was taken care of and spent the day with my sisters and brothers and her grandchildren and greatgrands.

That we live in America. I am forever an American. I believe in this country as it was formed by our forefathers.

For the faith of our fathers, living faith.

For friends.....some near and some far away!

I'm thankful!

Giving Thanks

We had a great time! I give thanks for this family.....Russell, his sister Sue and his parents. I just want to share a little of the trip in pictures first.....so here we are on our way snapping pictures out the windows of the beautiful leaves....








Well, so much for the pictures of trees, although there are trees in the background is you look really, really close, this is me.......proof that I do drive the motor home.....too bad there is no audio of Russell screaming in the background, "HOLD YOUR LANE! HOLD YOUR LANE!" I was doing the best I could!!!! That is a big old thing with my car behind.

More tomorrow, we got home this afternoon, praising God for a wonderful trip. Papa did so well....we were all secretly worried that he wouldn't....he went two days with no oxygen at all! That is a big thing and we all give thanks!

Wow, how time flies....

Well, we are in our home, sweet home away from home, parked in the parking lot of the outlet stores in GA......for the nite, we will be home tomorrow.....I'll have more to post then!

Have a Happy Thanksgiving everyone....

We made it to NC! Russell's dad had a great trip and is doing so well here. We have that to be very thankful for! Our computer isn't doing that great up here and is sooooooo slooooowwwww.....I can hardly believe tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

I will have pictures later. But until then, may everyone have a wonderful Thanksgiving. I realize I have so much to be thankful for and each of you are part of that thanks!

Recipe

Dawn honored me by asking for my Chicken & Black Bean Enchilada recipe. So here it is!....


3/4 lb. skinless/boneless chicken breasts (I just use as much as I want to)
3 slices bacon
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 1/2 cup picante sauce
1 16 oz can black beans, undrained
1 large red bell pepper, chopped
1 t cumin
1/4 t salt
1/2 cup sliced green onions (once again I do not measure)
12 flour tortillas (I use the soft taco size)
1 1/2 cup monterey jack cheese
1 cup extra sharp cheddar

toppings: lettuce, tomato, sour cream

Marinate chicken breasts in fresh lime juice and fajita seasoning for at least an hour). Cut chicken into strips. Cook bacon, remove bacon and pour off all but 2 T drippings. Cook chicken and garlic. (you can also grill the chicken and freeze it so you'll be able to make them quickly)Stir in 1/4 C picante sauce, beans, red pepper, cumin & salt. Simmer until thickened. Stir in onions & bacon. Spoon 1/3 c mixture in tortilla and top with cheese, (I just add the cheese in the pan and let it melt) Roll, place in lightly greased 13X9 baking dish. Spoon the remaining picante sauce of enchiladas (I use enchilada sauce because I like that better) Top with remaining cheese and sharp cheddar cheese, bake at 350 15 minutes covered with aluminum foil.

Delicious! Enjoy!

Those last minute things.....

O.K. today as I was frantically packing the motor home to leave at o'dark thirty (as my daddy used to say).....my son and his two friends came to have their early Thanksgiving! That is so David. He's very ADHD, very ,very! But he's sweet....he's in the middle with the cat. I got out the enchiladas and fed them. They left. Friend Carol came and two of our precious surrogate daughters came to visit while they were in town for a baby shower. From left to right, Carol, Katie, Mary Grace and me.

My little sister is here this weekend staying with me and visiting with mama. Yes that's her the young looking ,skinny one. Yes, next to the chubby older sister. She dragged me out to walk this morning, then she came home and did crunches and I don't know what all else. She wears a size 2.

We are finally almost all packed to leave in the morning. We rode over and got Russell's parents stuff. NONE OF US TRAVEL LIGHT! No, you would think we were off to tour the country! We will be on the road for two days....so we ask prayer for traveling mercies. Especially while I'm driving the motor home, pulling our car behind! I can only drive two hours at a time because it totally wipes me out. I'm stressed to the max the entire time I'm driving.

So good Sunday to all....We will have our laptop so I'll try to keep up!!

Early Thanksgiving

We leave Sunday on our journey to North Carolina to have Thanksgiving with Russell's sister and family. We are praying that papa will be able to make the trip without any problems! Since I won't be here, tonight I'm having an early Thanksgiving with my son who lives in town. Only instead of turkey, we'll be having his favorite, enchiladas! I hope he isn't disappointed because I made them with a new recipe and they are a little different. The original recipe came from a friend of my sister Cathy that she got while living in Austin, TX...so you know that has to be good!!! The new one comes from my sister Debbie and she says they are even better....ooops, I didn't say that Cathy!!

Well, David didn't come, not that unusual, so my sister and my friend and my husband and I enjoyed the absolute best enchiladas I've ever put in my mouth!!! Well, except for the other sister's recipe. Not to brag just remember they weren't my recipe.

It's Friday!!! My favorite day of the week....oh, how I hope it isn't like last Friday nite!


So I'm finishing this post on Saturday morning. My little sister got me up and we walked 2 miles....then she did 200 crunches...no you didn't read that wrong. Sickening isn't it....of course she does wear a size 2 which is also very, very sick! She doesn't want to be like mama when she's 84.....so she's actually doing something about it. Anyway, I sure hope I lost 10 lbs on that walk cause I sure need to! :) Now I'm off to pack the motor home for our trip tomorrow! I know, I know, I haven't even started and have no clue what to take!!!!! Have a great weekend!

Happy Birthday Lois!

When you have a big family, you have lots and lots of birthdays! We are always happy to celebrate another year of life. Lois has been married to my oldest brother for over 40 years....she's a saint let me tell you. They have 4 children and she is a decorator for Penney's. She's creative, calm, patient, loving.....and other stuff too. All our children wished she was their mother. And she sings! She's very, very gifted. So Happy Birthday SIL! I love you!

O.K. I realize the last few posts have been kind of downers, so I'm determined to be UP!!! Things are definitely going in the right directions with just little side trails which I will NOT talk about today. Mama is looking better than she has in a long time and working at her physical therapy so she can go home! Plus she's lost over 10 lbs. Can I be admitted??? I could stand a 10 lbs loss in the next 4 days!

So, now I'm off to make squash casserole to freeze for our trip to North Carolina for Thanksgiving.

Paraphrase of Psalm 61 2 & 3.....I called to the Lord as my heart grew faint; lead me to the Rock that is higher than I.

And He did!

Happy Birthday Papa

Today is Papa's 82nd birthday! The miraculous thing, and the great tribute to our mighty God, is that one year ago today he was diagnosed with lung cancer. The doctor's gave him a short time to live....That day in the motel room, we talked about the fact that God has our days numbered and when He is ready He will take us home, but no person doctor or otherwise, can know that time. So many prayers have gone up for him.....his oncologist finally admitted that prayer was what was working, as he was shaking his head.

Some ask the question, then why does God let some stay longer and take some even when both are being prayed for. Well, I guess I'd have to ask God that question. Deuteronomy 29:29 says this about that....."The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law." There are just some things we will not know...

So Happy Birthday Papa.....breathe easy today! We love you!

He always provides....

God always steps in if we just trust that He will.....mama was transferred to a rehab facility today which is what we wanted so that she can get stable on her feet again....she was not happy about it and didn't want to go. But as the day wore on, her spirits improved! When you move from one hospital to another (I'm guessing), they take pictures probably to cover their butts. And speaking of butts, they were taking pictures while I was gone to get some of her clothes...when I got back she said did you know they took pictures of my butt...and that is the biggest butt I've ever seen! Of course I cracked up and folks, remember this, laughter is truly the best medicine. Plus it was nice to hear her sense of humor back.

Tonight is the first nite I've actually been home early since this all started. I've tried to be productive and get the wash done and some cooking.

Another day!

Thanks to all who commented with words of encouragement! I really appreciate knowing there are people who care enough to pray! That is what is keeping all of us together these days.

My sister, Cathy,(pictured above with mama) who lives in Pensacola came Saturday and stayed until late Sunday afternoon. We are all trying to do what we can and be with mama as much as we can. She had a small procedure this afternoon on her shoulder which we hope will make her better able to use her walker. The medicine confused her a little. Tomorrow she will be moved to a rehab center to get her strong enough to go home! We are all looking forward to that day!

Matt, the youngest, was home for the weekend and I hardly saw him. I told him I'd make it up to him next time!

I still haven't heard from my oldest, and I'm still just having to trust Him with that.

This is Monday, Tuesday will be a better day!

As my world turns....

I really don't know how people without the Lord live through days of crisis. These past few days have been a whirlwind of emotion, and may be for a while. Thursday nite I had a call from my son saying he was going to kill himself. Just as an aside, he is a veteran of the first Gulf War, since it is veteran's day. He didn't as far as I know...someone went to check on him and that's the last I've heard. I didn't sleep well that nite, but i didn't fall apart either. I just said "Lord, I know you are there and you are the only one who can save him from his destructive lifestyle." And I have to put my trust in Him, knowing that I can trust Him, even with my child's life.

Friday, I had that early dr. appt. then attended a luncheon....meant to rest in the afternoon but it just never happened. At 10 Friday nite, the retirement center my mother lives in called to say she had fallen and hit her head and what did I want them to do? ????? I jerked on some clothes, drove over to find her still on the floor. They were afraid to get her up because her blood pressure was sky high....I may have been foolish, but I had to get her up...so I got down, had her put her arms around my neck and we struggled up and sat her down. She had a huge lump on the back of her head and was dizzy and nauseated, so they called the paramedics and I called my brother and away we went to the emergency room.....I don't know if any of you have ever been to the E.R. on Friday nite late, but it is not a pretty place! Thankfully, the scan of her brain was o.k. and now they are running lots of tests. Her blood pressure continues to fluctuate and stay high. I'm just praying she will get steady on her feet so she can return home.

So after a couple of sleepless nites, I'm home to sleep! Tomorrow we will deal with tomorrow.

Beautiful Friday

I was up at dawn this morning to go to a 7 a.m. doctor's appt. Why oh why would I schedule a 7 a.m.??? Especially after I was up most of the night with phone calls from my son who was obviously impaired. Drama was rampant and I'm really not trying to make light of it, it is just that this has been going on for so long and it grows really weary. I just pray that all you prayer partners will add Paul to your prayer lists! One light note about all this, the phone rang several times during the nite and my husband slept blissfully through it all. This morning when he woke up and I was telling him about it, he said, and I slept through all that!? I said yes, and count your blessings!

But really by the time I got out of the dr. office, the sun was shining beautifully and it is chilly! In a little while I go to help my mil decorate for a ladies luncheon, so I'm doing that thing I do and wondering what to wear, and pasting my everything is o.k. in my world smile on my face so that I don't make everybody miserable.

I really do plan to enjoy the rest of the day! Thanks be to God who gives us peace that passes human understanding and helps us to stand in the storms!

The Monarch....how do they know?

I hope you can see these.....Monarch butterflies were everywhere. Every year at this time, they begin their migration to Mexico...but they stop and lay their eggs on the milkweed and leave enough nourishment there for them to survive, then they take off to fly to Mexico.

How do they know when and where and how do their fragile wings take them to Mexico. Only the plan of the Almighty. That just can't be an accident. We so enjoyed watching them hang from the trees and when the wind blew they all flew up like a cloud of beautiful colors.

We were so blessed to be able to see them and watch as they just did what comes naturally to them. It really made our trip special.

A little peek into our anniversary trip.....

These are a few of our beach pictures taken on our 12th honeymoon as we like to call it!!! I think this was our most relaxing trip.

When we got to the first R.V. park, Henderson Beach, we were excited to have a front row seat to the power boat time trials for a race that we assume was Saturday. It was exciting to see those really fast boats and the helicopters chasing them,filming I guess.

The weather could not have been more perfect! We put our shorts on and walked on the beach kicking ourselves because we hadn't brought bathing suits....although the next day the purple flags were flying, meaning there were dangerous "pests" in the water which could be jellyfish, red tide or a number of other things, so we wouldn't have been in the water anyway.

We spent a lot of time walking with our dogs and meeting all the other campers and their dogs. We rode bikes for miles and we ATE. Before we left I lost 4 lbs.....they're back! I didn't realize how chubby I was until I looked at a picture of the two of us we got our waitress to take one nite when we were out to eat. It wasn't too bad just looking at it on the camera, but when I put it on the computer I said "who is that fat girl you were with??" I'm seriously back on my sensible eating plan today!

That was just a little peek, more later....you know when you get home, you have to clean that sucker and unload and you know I always take about 4 times as much as I ever wear, just in case! :)

If I ever.....

I think I've only done one meme since I've been blogging, but if I ever do the 100 things about myself, I'll just go ahead and get ahead and tell you all my pet peeve. I've lived in Florida all my life, specifically in Panama City, Florida, home of the world's most beautiful beaches, for all but 5 1/2 months of my life. For that short time I lived in Fairbanks, Alaska, and that's another story but I'm glad to be where I am! O.K. I digress...Husband and I were walking with the dogs and walked down to the boardwalk that leads to the beach. We stopped to get them a drink of water at the shower the sand off place...Since there was a man showering the sand off his feet and I being the friendly person I am, I asked him if he had been swimming in the Gulf. As he replied yes, his walkie talkie went off and he told the person on the other end that he was down at the ocean.....now, please....there is the Atlantic Ocean, the Pacific Ocean, the Indian Ocean, but this is the GULF OF MEXICO.... Gulf not ocean. I know a lot of people call it the ocean and I guess that's o.k.....but please know it is the Gulf...:) just a little bit of info that nobody asked for!

We're having a great day and this is our actual anniversary. Last nite, I asked my dear, forgetful husband if he remembered what we were doing 12 years ago and he said "on our way to our honeymoon?" I said sadly, "honey, we weren't married yet! We were at our rehearsal dinner!"

This morning, we got up and drove over to Another Broken Egg and had a fabulous breakfast. Russell said, we don't go to breakfast a lot do we? To which I replied, no, we're too lazy to get up and get ready that early! Glad we did today!

Just a little preview....

Words seem so important to me and I do not use the word awesome very often, but to walk on the beach in Destin on a November afternoon and look out at the gulf is so AWESOME! When I look at the gulf and realize that it's boundaries were set by our God and that it can go from slick calm to roaring chaos in a day, or even in an afternoon, when you know that you can't see other lands but that many people share these same waters, yes, now that is AWESOME. It is so beautiful here. I'm almost relaxed. DH didn't kill me over the credit card.....although I don't think I'll be shopping a lot while we're here....which is so hard with all the outlets! I could save a lot of money...oops, better not say that too loudly! We are taking the dogs for long walks and ourselves on long bicycle rides, and not sweating!!! A very good thing in Florida......this is our winter! I'm just mad that we didn't bring our bathing suits! We didn't think we'd need them, and the beach is so beautiful that I had to get in the water just a little in my shorts. That's just a little preview of our 12th honeymoon, pictures later......

We're off!

Well, our bags are packed and we're ready to go.....the dogs are sticking close because they know something is up. We're hooking up my car and the bikes and when we stop to get baths and dress, we'll start off on our anniversary adventure!

I'll take pictures! Have a great rest of your week!!

This day...

This halloween day, I'm loading up things to go in the motorhome. We are taking a little trip over to Destin for our anniversary. We just want to get by the beach and veg out! Oh, yea, and shop! Well, I probably shouldn't shop at all, I opened my credit card and almost had a heart attack, and know that when DH sees it, he WILL have one. You know, it isn't big stuff, just a little Coldwatercreek online here and a little Chico's online there and all on sale....you know just a little bargain here and a little bargain there...adds up to me saving a LOT of money....and paying a BIG bill. I'm off the online shopping for now. It is too dangerous and I'm reeling myself in before I break the household. I mean, you know it is getting on to winter and the money tree in the backyard is looking pretty bare!

So, I will enjoy walking on the beach! That's so much fun when it is cool and you're not sweating like crazy. This picture is not the beach we'll be on, but it is the beach. Now that day was HOT! I hope you all have a good weekend, I may be able to blog from the motorhome, but I'm not sure. DH has been out there working on all that electronic stuff, because no way can we be without our t.v. and computer....we really don't know how to just relax!!!

Dreams

I was reading on another blog about family traditions. Our family has several family traditions, but that isn't what I want to say today. One of my dreams has been to have a family portrait....by that I mean me, my husband, my son, his exwife (I consider her a daughter), the grandchildren including their half sister because if she is part of them, then she must be part of me, my youngest bio son, my stepson and his wife and the youngest. I want it to be a picture full of happy faces and I want to hang it over our mantle so that everyone who visits can see our family, our entire family. I have thought about this for several years. I don't see it happening because everyone is so scattered.

I understand what Angie means when she says after a divorce it is different. In fact I wouldn't mind having the father and mother of our children in the family photo....after all they are part of the family. This is one of the reasons I try so hard to advise people to do whatever it takes to have their family unit stay together. I know that God takes whatever mess we make and makes it work out for His glory, but it would be so much easier if we just lived by His Word.

I will always want that portrait. I can take pictures of everyone and just frame then all together. That wouldn't be the same. I could photo shop them (as if I knew how). That wouldn't be the same either. I have always loved the Christmas cards with the children on them, but I never could do that because I couldn't get a picture of them all together.

I'm so grateful to God that I have each and every one of my children and grandchildren and that God has given me so many blessings. DH said one time that he thought it wasn't so much the portrait I wanted but what it represents...a family united. I'm keeping the dream because sometimes dreams do come true!

Mama really NEVER said there would be days like this!

It has been such a strange Monday...several upsetting things that I just don't think I should blog about. But trust me, over here in normalland, there is never a dull moment.

After the strangeness of the day, I went to Publix to pick up a few groceries, turned down an aisle and there was a woman sitting on the floor beside her buggy eating a sandwich. My cousin, don't ya just love small towns??, was ahead of me on the aisle and I heard him ask if she needed help. She said no, I'm just eating. When I got to the cash register, I said are you aware a woman is on the floor on the chip aisle? The cashier said, yes, we asked her if she needed help and she said she had to eat her sandwich because the olives were falling out, to which in my oh, so tactful way, I say, I think she may be a few olives short of a jar and anyway isn't there some kind of safety rule that says you should HELP HER WHETHER SHE WANTS IT OR NOT??? I just need to stay home!

Family Reunion....Continues

Mama such a good time seeing family, her cousins and nieces. This is her brother's daughter.




I've always loved this gravesite, well, you know, as much as you can love a grave! But behind the church is a little cemetery and most of the people there are related to me! When my grandma was alive and able to go to reunions, she would walk among the graves telling about who was who and at this one (I think), I asked one day who was buried where the little headstone was by the two big headstones...she answered, oh, that was the first wife.


Here's Cathy, Mama and Tommy after we were successfully removed from the bathroom incident I mentioned in the last post.

We have one 1st, 2nd or 3rd cousin (you really lose count in a big family), that mama loves to see each year. Regina's parents were killed tragically in a car accident many years ago. But just to show that senility runs in the family, as we were leaving she came up to hug mama goodbye and my sister says "Tell your mother we said hello" and as my brother and I were gasping in shock trying to get them to zip it up, mama says "Yea, how are they doing?" Well, as brother and I fell to the ground in a dead faint, Regina sweetly says "They're just fine, they're in heaven." As we walked on to the car, Cathy mumbled something like, "oh, ground, open up and swallow me now!" :)

It really was a nice day, I'm glad we went.....I wonder what will happen when the older ones in the family are all gone. Will we still get together and reminisce? Or will we slowly just all drift apart? I hope not. It's a good Sunday, have a great week!